My mom is dating a much younger man
Things that surprise me range from how well they give oral to what they think about a certain style or genre of music. Also, that not all older women want kids or have kids, which would've been a sticking point for me.Man C: Sexually, I was surprised by her openness to experiment and surprised that there was no stigma about oral sex. I just follow directions given, which puts much less pressure on me. Society isn't as used to seeing it as we'd like them to be. Man B: Older women know what they want, so I don't have to guess. I only had one friend with benefits after that who was six years older then me. Since then I've always looked for older women above all else. Now I'm 31, and I have more experience sexually and a desire to satisfy my partner in every way I can.
Tessina, Ph D, a licensed family therapist in practice in Long Beach, Calif., and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again, tells Web MD.Man B: Yes, I didn't like that most women my own age didn't seem to be in control of the relationship or in bed.Man C: I married a girl my age and dated a couple others who were around my age.For their part, the men like the sophistication and life success of their older mates, she explains.The much touted idea that women peak sexually in their 30s and men in their teens does not enter into it -- most of these couples are beyond both those age periods.